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Being upset about the past, wait what?!

Nyanza Lynn Riley

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Being upset about the past, wait what?!

Being upset about the past, wait what?

There is something I will never understand. It is something I just can't wrap my head around. That thing is giving an abusive person a main role in our lives, one that adds absolutely no value. Let me explain a little bit more. 

I have two sons, with two different men as their fathers. Their childhoods were as nice as possible, but they lacked the role of a daddy in their lives. That's the nicest way I can put it. Of course, my children are older now, they're 31 and 20.


The Power to BE – Eliminating the Need to Prove ANYTHING to Them

Nyanza Lynn Riley

The Power to BE – Eliminating the Need to Prove ANYTHING to Them
We have to stop striving so hard to prove others right or wrong. We have to stop focusing on getting “their” stamp of approval and only living through “their” lenses. Because the more that we concentrate on their vision, we lose ours. We lose sight of who we are and what we could become. We tend to miss opportunities that are meant to stretch and propel us, all while being stuck inside a box that we don’t even own or control. And this causes a plethora of health issues, inside and out. But that can change. You just have to make a decision to BE!