Being upset about the past, wait what?
There is something I will never understand. It is something I just can't wrap my head around. That thing is giving an abusive person a main role in our lives, one that adds absolutely no value. Let me explain a little bit more.
I have two sons, with two different men as their fathers. Their childhoods were as nice as possible, but they lacked the role of a daddy in their lives. That's the nicest way I can put it. Of course, my children are older now, they're 31 and 20.